I'm a Widow, Disabled, and Can't Take Care of My House Anymore - Can I Give It to My Son?

First, it would belong to him, not you. It could also mean that you might not be able to get certain Medicaid and Supplemental Security Income (SSI) benefits for up to five years after the transfer. There may be other solutions that would work better. A local elder law attorney or special needs planning attorney could advise you.